You may be caught in a cycle of binge eating, undereating, and body negativity. You may be stuck in a loop of unsuccessful dieting. Before you can make any progress toward your positive body goals, you must change the thoughts and emotions you experience about food and your appearance. A positive relationship with food involves being flexible and confident around food. It indicates that you don't adhere to any "food rules" and firmly believe that all foods may be incorporated into a balanced diet. When you have a positive relationship with food, you understand that it is simply food and that it cannot and should not be classified as either good or bad. Your body's signals of hunger and fullness can be trusted. There is no shame or guilt associated with consuming particular meals. When you have a positive relationship with food, enjoying a bar of chocolate won't make you feel bad about yourself or force you to consume the entire slab. You must first recognize the s...